I had to laugh when I read that part where you write that your "Germanness" comes through, I feel this every time I am at international conferences. Best I can do is telling myself that it is a form of respect to show interest in others only if it is genuine or at least out of politeness - not, as you say, transactional. I think it's so awkward when that happens.
This is exactly how I feel about networking too!! Still trying my best to work through this as well. Glad you brought this up 😭
Hope you feel less alone!
I had to laugh when I read that part where you write that your "Germanness" comes through, I feel this every time I am at international conferences. Best I can do is telling myself that it is a form of respect to show interest in others only if it is genuine or at least out of politeness - not, as you say, transactional. I think it's so awkward when that happens.
That’s a great tip, thanks so much!